I used to always wonder why people with kids were always late. It’s not that different than getting yourself out of the house, right? Boy, was I wrong! Now that I have Baby E, I know exactly what it’s like. Getting out of the house with a baby is a lot more work! Some days are easier than others but the key is allowing plenty of time to get ready. Baby E is starting to go on outings more regularly now. Here are my tips for getting out of the house with a baby (and be on time too)!
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Find a quick makeup and hair routine that works for you, and get ready before the baby.
I plan to get ready either right after I feed Baby so he is awake and happy or during a nap (or if you want to sacrifice sleep for some peaceful morning time, you could get ready before the baby wakes up!). He usually sits in his bouncer or you can use a play gym. If he’s awake, I sing and talk to him the whole time to keep him entertained.
Today I actually got ready without any pitstops. I didn’t have to stop to change him, and he was happy the entire time. I did my makeup in five minutes and threw my hair in a mom bun. Although I had time to wash my hair today (Baby was extra good!), don’t be afraid to make day 3 (or maybe even day 4..) hair work.
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Allow Time to Get the Baby Ready.
Even though babies are small, they can take awhile to get ready. Make sure you change their diaper right before you plan to leave the house. Allow extra time for last minute leaks, blowouts, and spit-up messes. These things happen! And sometimes they all happen in the same 5 minutes!
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Restock the Diaper Bag After Each Outing.
I find it helpful to always have the diaper bag stocked with diapers (my favorites are these!), wipes, binkies, burp cloths, and all the other essentials. When you get home from an outing, pull the dirty clothes, burp cloths, binkies, etc. out and replace them with clean ones. I also quickly learned to bring more than one outfit change. When you’re ready for an outing, just grab the perfectly packed diaper bag and whatever last minute items you need.
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Time the Outing Right.
Take into consideration feeding times, and plan around that. I usually make sure I have just finished feeding Baby E before I leave the house. Sometimes it’s hard to plan it right, but just do your best. As soon as I finish feeding him, I do a quick diaper change and head out. I know he is generally happy for 1-1.5 hours after feeding him. If your baby is happy or napping right after a feeding, it could be a good time to run to the store and have the baby in the stroller or carrier.
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The other day Baby was fussing because he was tired so I put him in his carseat and clicked him into the stroller. We went on a walk until he fell asleep, then I clicked the carseat into the base in the car so I could run my errands. Just be creative and do what you have to do so you don’t end up running errands with a fussy baby because that isn’t easy. There is no right time to get out of the house, but knowing when your baby is happiest will make the outings easier. The more you become comfortable with outings, the easier it’ll become to be out and about for longer. Eventually you will be comfortable feeding and changing diapers wherever you are in your day. In the beginning, even a small trip to drive through Starbucks is an accomplishment. ;]
Lauren says
Yes! Thank you for admitting that 4th day hair is a thing, haha!
Farmhouse Mama says
I think we all need to be honest here! 🙂 glad I’m not the only one!
Stretchy Mummy says
Hahaha I am always late! Today I left him with a baby sitter…and I think I need to figure out a similar system for those times too.
Farmhouse Mama says
It’s hard!! I admit I am late still occasionally because sometimes things just add up and before you know it, you’re late. Like today for example ?
But these steps really can help us be on time as long as we allow enough time to do these things! 🙂
Kai says
Yes! Great tips! My daughter has pretty bad reflux so we have to burp her for 20 minutes right after each feeding, which made going out a nightmare. It is definitely all about timing and being in tune with your little one!
Farmhouse Mama says
Oh wow! I definitely understand!! Every baby has their own needs and some people just don’t understand what goes into getting out of the house! Sometimes it’s hard but so worth it!
Jenn JG says
I am always late and my kids are 12 & 8 now. I swear something always goes wrong as we are about out the door and my youngest moves slower than a backwards turtle!
Farmhouse Mama says
Oh my gosh that is too funny!!
Tola says
It’s crazy how a little person can make such an impact, looks like you got this down though
Farmhouse Mama says
Isn’t it?! My whole world changed but for the better!!
Angie says
Getting out of the house can be such a hassle with the baby. I’m a recipe blogger so the worst is when I realize I need one just one thing for what I’m working on! There’s no such thing as running to the store to get it in like 10 minutes. A quick 10 minute run to the store has turned into more like 45 minutes with a baby!
Farmhouse Mama says
Oh wow that has to be so hard!! It’s so true that there is no such thing as a quick 10 minute errand when you have a baby!
Claire says
Great tips! Getting out can be so hard but so worth I️t!
Farmhouse Mama says
Thank you for reading!
Flossie McCowald | SuperMomHacks says
This is 100% spot-on – all things that (most) new parents have to learn the HARD way (OMG I remember those days!!!). Restock diaper bag AS SOON AS YOU GET HOME is crucial. Hopefully this post will save a few new parents from making the mistakes of NOT doing these things! 🙂
Farmhouse Mama says
Yes!! I definitely learned the hard way with a few of these items!! I hope this is helpful to the new parents out there! Thank you so much for reading!! 🙂
Julie says
I know all about trying to get out of the house with kids – 3 girls. We need to start getting ready at least an hour before the latest we need to leave. Plus you need extra time to put shoes, coats and hats on – at least 15 minutes. Kids can take forever. Lol
Farmhouse Mama says
Lol! Oh wow! That’s a huge task to get 3 out of the house!! I’m still at the stage where I dress him but I bet they do take forever when they have to do everything by themselves ?